Title: What Kind of Woman

Author: Kate Baer

Publisher: Harper Perennial 2020

Genre: Poetry Collection

Pages: 94

Rating: 5/5 stars

Reading Challenges: 

“When life throws you a bag of sorrow, hold out your hands/Little by little, mountains are climbed.” So ends Kate Baer’s remarkable poem “Things My Girlfriends Teach Me.” In “Nothing Tastes as Good as Skinny Feels” she challenges her reader to consider their grandmother’s cake, the taste of the sea, the cool swill of freedom. In her poem “Deliverance” about her son’s birth she writes “What is the word for when the light leaves the body?/What is the word for when it/at last, returns?”

Through poems that are as unforgettably beautiful as they are accessible, Kate Bear proves herself to truly be an exemplary voice in modern poetry. Her words make women feel seen in their own bodies, in their own marriages, and in their own lives. Her poems are those you share with your mother, your daughter, your sister, and your friends.

I had to get Baer’s other poetry collection after reading her newest collection, I Hope this Finds You Well. This older collection has a great mix of poems about being a woman and being a mother. Her poetry is sometimes very sparse, but full of emotions and meaning. I found myself reading and rereading certain poems. I might just have to pick this one up for my personal collection.

My favorite poem in the entire collection:

Moon Song

You are not an evergreen, unchanged
by the pitiless snow. You are not a photo,
a brand, a character written for sex or
house or show. You do not have to choose
one or the other: a dream or a dreamer, the
bird or the birder. You may be a woman of
commotion and quiet. Magic and brain.

You can be a mother and a poet. A wife and
a lover. You can dance on the graves you dug
on Tuesday, pulling out the bones of yourself
you began to miss. You can be the sun and the
moon. The dance a victory song.

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